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is going about the secret to winning
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college recommendation letters so we've
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been getting this a lot uh especially if
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you are uh possibly in the maybe list
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and you were requested to send
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additional information one of those
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information could be a college
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recommendation letter also uh if you are
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private applying to private schools then
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this is also probably really important
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because they typically require that
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upfront if you're applying to some
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Public Schools they might not request it
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upfront they would only request it if
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you were put on that kind of maybe a
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pile there where they'll ask you for
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additional essays and also the the
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letter Rex so let's dig into it uh what
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we're going to cover today is a little
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bit about why these recommendation
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letters matter we're going to talk about
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how to ask for a recommendation letter
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and also what are the key elements to
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know that if the letter is strong also
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we'll talk about the common mistakes and
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how to avoid them and lastly we'll end
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it with some Q&A so uh quick background
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for myself is that I used to be a former
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UC Berkeley admissions Outreach
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coordinator and instructor where I
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taught classes on how to get into
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graduate school I went to different high
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schools across California to teach about
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how to get into college and so know that
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for myself I was trained in the
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admissions office with coach Tony which
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is actually where we met secondly uh fun
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fact is that I was a full R scholar for
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UC Berkle for undergrad and graduate
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school if you missed it uh last week I
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did this training or was it two weeks
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ago two weeks ago I did a training about
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how I got a full ride scholarship so
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definitely um check out the Replay for
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that and also by way of background in
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terms of my own training I used to work
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in K through2 education policy worked in
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attech and also was an adiss and now
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currently an admissions adviser and uh
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quick housekeeping if uh if you don't
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mind just share your high school
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graduation year in the chat just so I
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know who I'm talking to in this room and
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throughout the entire time you're with
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me you can just drop the questions in
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the Q&A box uh lastly replay and notes
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will be available in 40 hours and so you
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can always text our team to be able to
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get access to that all right so let's go
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ahead and get started on first off why
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recommendation letters matter
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so uh P though first off always doing
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this warm-up question any idea about our
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letters of recommendations always
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reviewed when submitted yes or no does
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anyone have any ideas on that do you
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think that they're always re they're
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always reviewed or are they not once you
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receive them any thoughts or ideas here
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from the
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group we might have a little bit of a
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small group SL group here yes question
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mark any other thoughts or
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ideas all right so the answer to this is
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actually yes okay so remember that when
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it comes to college missions they do
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something called a comprehensive review
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process and this comprehensive review
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process what it means is that they have
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to review everything that is submitted
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meaning that if they um if you submit
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your activities you submit your
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academics whatever it is they're going
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to review it and that means that there's
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no like particular threshold or like cut
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off for GPA for example that tends to be
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the kind of uh typical myth that people
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think that oh I need to be a certain GPA
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in order to get in well that's not the
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case in in reality they do look at
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everything so that uh in case there is
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something else aside from the academics
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that might matter so same goes for
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letter Rex they'll always look at the
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letter Rex if they are submitted so
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remember that in terms of what the
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admissions officers are looking for
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right they're looking for particular key
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attributes that you might fit into or
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your student might fit into and the goal
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right is that for yourself you want to
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connect the dots for them you want to
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make it easy and accessible and
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understandable that they uh that you are
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the profile that they're looking for
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within their school and this not only
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applies to just uh College admissions
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but remember this might apply to
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scholarships this might apply to summer
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programs or anything else that might
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request an essay a letter wreck or
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anything of that sort so the goal is for
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you to understand what exactly are they
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looking for and typically we always know
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from the admission side they want to
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understand your leadership experience
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they want to understand that your
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academics can you handle the college
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rigor they want to understand are you
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driven do you actually know what is it
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that you want to do later on in the
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future and that do you can you actually
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explain and articulate why is it that
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you want to go down this path so the
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goal is right for you to show that you
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are this well-rounded applicant who
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understands why you want to apply to
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college what you want to major in and
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how are you able to know that based off
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what you're currently doing and that's
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showing the initiative so the letter Rex
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right are important in this because they
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complete that particular picture in
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general right I always see like asking
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for letter Rex is a good thing um some
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students might react negatively when
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they see like oh I need to submit also
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letters of wre and another essay that
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just means that they need more
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information on you that they just didn't
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get enough on so that is a sign that
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they are interested in you but you just
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didn't do a good job enough to really
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connect the dots for them so when you
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see the letter Rec requirement or the
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recommend there that just means that you
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um just needed to uh depict a part that
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maybe you weren't able to clearly
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articulate enough so the way to think
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about it right if you know what they're
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looking for and you submitted an
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application but you were requested to
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send additional information then the
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question becomes why did they do that
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why did they ask me to submit another
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letter of recommendation and it's
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possible that you're missing something
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or they just need to validate whether
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the things that you saying is something
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that is uh very is actually true and so
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in terms of the letter recommendations
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they're really made to help externally
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validate whether do you have the right
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character the work ethic the leadership
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potential to really be able to uh be
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admitted to this University so they're
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asking for this additional information
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because they didn't get this sense from
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you when they were reading your resume
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for the first time or your activities or
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your academic uh grades so for example
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if you know for certain
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that your grades weren't the best or you
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didn't have the best classes or whatever
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that the case and you got requested to
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submit a letter wreck well in that case
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then it's kind of a probably an easy
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thing to guess or assume that you just
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didn't have the enough academic rigor to
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really get through to the final yes
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right away and in that case right the
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external validation is to be able to
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understand do you have the academic
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rigor to successfully graduate from this
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University it's not just about being
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able to get in but can you actually
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graduate on time it's possible that you
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have amazing academics and you just
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didn't have enough like activities in
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your uh application and you should be
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able to know that based off of like what
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you submitted if you were to like kind
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of review and think about what is it
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that like happened um with your own
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application and what you sent over you
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might be able to guess like oh I know
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that for sure that I didn't have any
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leadership experiences on my resume or
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my activities and I kind of could have
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probably done a better job to articulate
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that so for this letter recommendation
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I'm going to focus on the validation
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that I do have leadership potential so
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those are the things that you want to
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think about right you want to imagine
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you're in the admission seat and you're
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trying to evaluate your own application
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if you were to be super critical about
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yourself or super critical about your
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student what is it that you would say
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that is your weakest opport your weakest
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area or what is your biggest opportunity
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for growth and that's what you want to
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double down on you want to be able to
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cover the gaps that you think that you
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don't necessarily have in your what's
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already covered in your application
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covered in your academics or your
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activities okay second thing is the
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differentiation from other students
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what's nice about the letter Rex right
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is that it's going uh it's coming from a
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place where um people uh other adults
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are able to Advocate on your behalf and
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in this case like not a lot of other
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students are going to get that same
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adult so that being said right um being
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able to differentiate yourself from
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other students you might want to think
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about who are the particular uh adults
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in my life that could be able to refer
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to that no one no other students can
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possibly be able to do so for example
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like what if you were one of the few
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people that got a letter wck from your
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principal from your superintendent from
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your vice principal or something of that
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sort that will give you a Competitive
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Edge because no one else can be able to
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really get that same one if you notice
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that there is other students that are
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like all the students are asking for a
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letter Rec from the same person usually
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we see this like from one counselor or
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something of that sort and that might
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not be the best person to get it from
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potentially
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because even though they might be really
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good at writing it it's possible that
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you're not going to be able to
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differentiate yourself because it's
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likely that if a uh if a counselor is
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writing for multiple people or adult is
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writing for multiple people then in that
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case it might sound generic and that's
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something that we'll talk about in terms
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of the common mistakes that we typically
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see when people ask for a letter wreck
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and lastly the important thing is the
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more control over narrative meaning
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because it's more additional information
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you're able to have more substance about
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you meaning that letter rexs are really
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great because they provide more context
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more depth about you as an applicant and
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so if you to work with the work with
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somebody that can help you develop that
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narrative then that becomes even more
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powerful like for example let's just say
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that you have a lot of leadership
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experiences but you uh notice that you
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might be lacking a little bit more about
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the specific subject matter so so let's
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say you have a lot of leadership
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experiences but you are lacking um
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you're applying to engineering and you
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don't have enough like engineering
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experiences or activities then like can
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you ask your internship supervisor or an
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engineering teacher or like a um uh
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engineering like supervisor like someone
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that um is like the supervisor of a of a
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of a club at the high school for
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engineering that might be somebody that
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you can rely on to help you control your
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narrative and close that Gap that I
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talked about because they can be able to
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speak directly to that specific thing
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that you want to improve on for your
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entire entirety of your application so
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all of this right in a sense your
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letters Rec is a way for you to be
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strategic and so you don't want to just
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ask for any letter wreck you want to be
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mindful and be very um intentional about
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who you're requesting a letter wreck
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from so um but before we go into letter
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Rec though there is a there's a few
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things that we need to to make sure that
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um first off diagnosing your Gap so this
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is what what I was mentioning earlier
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which is what is the gap that you're
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trying to cover is it that you're
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lacking academic rigor do you have low
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grades that you need to explain do you
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have some type of um did you not take
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enough AP courses uh did you have like a
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missing area within your academics where
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like one semester you did very poorly
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what is the gap that you think that you
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can be able to address in this
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particular part the second part is the
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leadership right is it that maybe you've
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been involved uh with your clubs
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generally but you just don't have a very
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specific like leadership experience that
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you can talk to so maybe the person
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that's writing a letter W can talk about
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how you were able to um play a pivotal
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or a huge contribution towards a
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community or club or something of that
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sort or is it like the related field as
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I was telling you about about the
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engineering example right what if you
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don't have enough particular experiences
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within that field that you're applying
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to and remember that for the admissions
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officers for us we wanted to understand
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like if you're really interested in
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applying to this particular um major how
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do you know that right and also if uh
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not only do you you think that you want
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to study this but do do others also
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think that you're a good fit can someone
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actually speak to the matter of like the
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good fit that you are to this major and
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maybe that could be a really great thing
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imagine if you were to get an internship
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and and you're able to um get an
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internship within I know the medical
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field it would be really amazing for
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like a doctor or somebody of a medical
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field to say like oh I worked with this
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person very closely I've seen their
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potential and I think that they'll be a
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huge contribution to the medical field
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if they were given the opportunity to
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study more about it that would be an
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amazing kind of uh connection or being
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strategic about like who it is that you
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can talk to secondly timing matters
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meaning that you uh you don't want to
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ask for someone for a letter wreck like
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the weeks before it's due sometimes it
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might be a rush because if you're
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requested to send a letter
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recommendation sometimes they might give
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you like two three months turnaround
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time which is very like short notice and
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so in that way right you want to try to
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get it like as soon as possible you want
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to ask as as soon as you can and also
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you want to Prime them right meaning
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that you don't want to just all of a
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sudden think about who to ask when it
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comes to you but keep in mind to
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yourself who are the individual people
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that you think that would be a good fit
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for you to let a letter a recommendation
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and just keep that in mind for yourself
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right you don't have to ask them right
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away when you think about them but just
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keep like a mental list of who are the
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right individuals and then you could be
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able to uh reach out to them when the
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time comes and if you know that you're
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applying to private schools right then
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uh you know that you would have to do it
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for the beginning of the application
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season so try to prime it as early as
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the beginning of this year even right
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now is a good time if you are a junior
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and you are currently going to apply
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this upcoming November it might be a
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good idea to start asking people right
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now or asking teachers or your adults to
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see if they would be comfortable to do
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that and we'll talk about how to request
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it in in just a bit but when you're
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choosing the right recomend uh
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recommender you want a few things to um
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criteria they want that they should
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fulfill one experience with you they
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should have be able to have deep
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relationship with you and and and depth
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is like really important here you don't
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want just somebody just because they
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have a great fancy title like a
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principal or a vice principal or
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something of that sort you want someone
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who can really show that they have a
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good knowledge about you about your
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experiences about your background and
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like what makes you like a strong
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candidate you want to be able to have
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someone that can talk at the level of
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death that nobody else can in the room
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so like like a kind of lim Miss test is
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if you were to think about all the
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teachers all the adults in your school
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who is that one person that would
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advocate for you or advocate for your
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child and that person is probably the
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one that would be the best fit for you
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in this case right because they are the
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one that has a true understanding of
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your potential second is writing
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capability this is something that not a
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lot of people really realize or think
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about and when I mean writing capability
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mean have you seen their writing before
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I know this is kind of hard to hard to
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kind of understand like English teachers
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typically like you know that they'll be
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okay to write but like the ones that I
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would be very careful about is like for
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example Sports coaches is uh is one of
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them uh again there's nothing wrong
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about sports coaches and they're they're
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all great uh folks especially but the
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thing is like um you haven't necessarily
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been able to see any like writing
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documents or things that come out of
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like their uh of them of their like
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effort and so you kind of usually see it
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with English teachers because they have
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to produce papers they I mean they're
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teaching you how to write stuff and they
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would probably know how to articulate
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these things but like if you were to ask
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like a and it doesn't have to be a PE
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like coach or teacher or whatever but
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also take consideration of like the Math
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teachers and the science teachers and so
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forth like do they uh have you like even
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seen like how they write because and
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this this might be a very uncomfortable
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question to be because you don't want to
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just ask them like hey can you can you
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write well but more so like do you feel
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confident in their ability to articulate
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these ideas right do you feel confident
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that they can be a strong advocate for
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you so this doesn't just have to be a
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writing right but can they speak to you
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in a way that feels very thoughtful and
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thought-provoking can they be able to
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articulate their ideas in a very concise
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and very compelling way those are things
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that you want to look out for when they
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speak about other things or other people
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and in ways right really you're being
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able to try to understand what is can
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they be a strong advocate in writing and
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lastly is relationship right this goes
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to uh show I mean this is kind of one of
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those no-brainer obvious kind of things
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but you want to make sure that you have
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a relationship with them and that you
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are nurturing the relationship
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throughout this whole entire time that
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they are someone that you can trust if
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you feel like someone can speak poorly
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about you then don't choose them of
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course right you want to feel like you
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can trust this person to be able to go
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back and forth with them that you feel
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comfortable to let them know that hey
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this is something I want you to talk
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about and do you feel comfortable about
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talking about that with about me if you
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can have a two-way conversation with
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that person then that's a good lus test
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that that is probably a good
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relationship to have but if it's like a
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one-way relationship where like you feel
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kind of uncomfortable or discomfort just
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trying to talk to this person then that
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probably doesn't make sense to have that
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person to write the Rel recommendation
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so just be very um mindful in terms of
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like what does that relationship feel
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like to you and do you trust them to be
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able to write good things about you
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because there has been instances where
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letter Rex we might sometimes see like
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oh this person actually did not really
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recommend this person or they just did a
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very poor job so just be careful about
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who you're asking all right so let's go
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into the next part which is the
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temperature check okay uh so when you
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make a request don't just clearly go up
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to them and be like hey can you write my
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letter of recommendation right you want
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to get a temperature check and what I
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mean by temperature check is you want to
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like test the waters it's kind of like
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when you dip your foot in the in the
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pool and you want to see how cold or hot
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it is right you don't want to just
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plunge yourself in uh and so the kind of
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way that you might want a frame it is
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hey like would you feel comfortable
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writing me a strong that a
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recommendation for my college
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applications I really valid your class
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and I believe that you can highlight XYZ
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in a way that could stand out to
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admissions officers the way that this is
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like kind of framed here right it's
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asking if there would be comfortable
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right because if you ask them like will
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you write me a letter wreck you will
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either just get a yes or a no and you
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know it's possible that that no uh
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usually you might get more nose like
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right off the bat because they are not
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even sure if they can even write about
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you just yet and you're asking for the
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level of comfort because you want to
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understand if they're not comfortable or
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they they feel comfortable but they need
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you or but not entirely comfortable then
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what is it that you need to give them or
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to support them in order to get to that
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level of comfort generally speaking
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right with the adults that I imagine
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that you're asking letters of record
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from they would support you they want to
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support you but do they actually feel
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comfortable to write about it right
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that's two different issues uh yes they
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will be down to support you but are they
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really feeling comfortable to write
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about it and that's where we go into
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this part about creating a brag sheet
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which is super important a brag sheet is
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a pretty much a sheet where you can list
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down your accomplishments your
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leadership roles and your college or
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career goals I forgot to put College
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there but essentially with this um brag
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sheet it's a think of it as like a cheat
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sheet for your letter recom recommender
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to write about you because you want to
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have them highlight certain things about
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you and again this goes back to the
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whole idea of uh about being able to
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manage your narrative or control your
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narrative if you create a bra sheet that
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has very specific points about what your
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Gap is and what you want them to be able
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to talk about then that's great that
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gives them more information to
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intentional about what is it that they
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should be focusing on so again the more
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information that you give them the more
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successful that they will be to be able
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to write about you and so don't forget
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to create this Brad sheet or give it to
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them and they they're not going to ask
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for it okay like if you were to even ask
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them like hey would it be helpful if I
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gave you this that be like oh yeah know
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it's fine not a big deal whatever don't
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don't fall into that trap okay because
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if you just let them write about
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anything that they think then how are
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you going to know what are they going to
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actually write about and will they write
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about the things that are part of that
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Gap that we told you about right
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remember that there's attributes they're
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looking for are you able to speak to all
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these attributes and is this person that
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is writing for you are they like
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reinforcing that particular attribute so
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creating break sheeet is going to be a
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super important step so uh going to an
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example letter okay uh this is I'll read
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this out loud and then we can oh I think
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I skipped this slide oh now this one's
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the slide okay let's read this example
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letter here which is uh to whom am may
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concern I am pleased to recommend John
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Smith for ad missions to your college
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John was a student in my English class
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and he did well in his coursework he was
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always on time turning his assignments
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and got good grades he was a quiet
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student but respectful and responsible
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John is a hard worker and I believe he
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will do well in college if you have any
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questions feel free to reach out
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sincerely Mr Johnson all right we love
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to hear from the group uh now that our
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group got a bit
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bigger what are folks' reactions to this
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particular letter any ideas
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here any ideas about how folks might
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react to this completely average I love
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I love that very generic okay
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nice okay so far yes completely average
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very generic very basic no detail
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all right and I see some folks writing
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in the chat for the hosted panelist but
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it' be good for everyone else to see as
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well so yes everything what everyone
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said is right uh uh not so detailed not
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no examples yes exactly so uh let me go
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into the uh like what what uh we see
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here is like yes the one is is that's
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too generic there's no specific details
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about John skills or personalities
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there's a lack of enthusiasm here it
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just feels like it's kind of forced
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right please to recommend is lukewarm of
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best no personal connection it feels
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like a template right it's not like
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there's a real example here about like
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how did it actually talk to uh John and
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also it doesn't really showcase the
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impact either right um they're just kind
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of speaking generically about how he
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made a difference but not really
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anything specific here so let's read
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another letter here uh actually not not
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before going to letter let's assume that
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you gave a bra sheet right to the uh to
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your letter recommender so um this is
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what you might provide them right you
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talk about how you contributed to the
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course you talked about how you were a
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top performer you developed an
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independent research paper about social
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justice movements you conducted
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interviews about with local activists
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and also uh your work was selected in
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the uh publication for schools of
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literacy and also you demonstrate that
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you participate a lot some other things
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that you might let them know like hey
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and this is a good reminder that
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teachers don't always know what you're
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involved in you can't assume that they
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actually understand what you want to
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study what you want to do in your career
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or what you want yeah or what you're
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involved in at school and so you might
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want to remind them like hey by the way
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I'm also involved in many different
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things I'm the editor and chief in the
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school newspaper uh this is my impact I
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also was part of a speech and debate
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team member uh this I actually won a
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tournament and also I was a creative
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writing Club president which I've helped
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many different students some other
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information I might tell them is like
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hey uh here's my personal strengths and
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work ethic that I think I have as a
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critical thinker strong communicator and
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so forth and also I'm very passionate
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about um like storytelling journalism
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media advocacy and my future goals is to
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go and study journalism or English and
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uh potentially maybe go down a career of
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being a journalist or
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editor uh and also what's nice here as
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well which I think is like extremely
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important is why did I choose you for
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this letter right and uh a part of a
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brsh sheet also is to be like bragging
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also about the teacher that you decided
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to choose as well right you wanted to
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show like hey I feel like I have a deep
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relationship with you I feel like I
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really care about you and this is the
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reason why I feel like we have a strong
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relationship it's because your class
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really helped me change uh or challenge
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me deeply about how storytelling and its
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impact you really encourage me to push
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beyond the basics in research and
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writing and also you see my grow you see
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my growth firsthand and you can speak to
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my work ethic and Leadership you're
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pretty much not just bragging yourself
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you're bragging them you're bragging
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like why they are like your most trusted
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adult and it is a privilege and an honor
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to be able to like uh to be asked to
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write my letter wreck and when you make
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it personal when you make this
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information like um feel like you're the
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only person who I can ask at this school
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they have such a larger like kind of
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determination to do even better for you
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so don't just go out and just like ask
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anybody but make the person that you're
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asking feel like they're the only person
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that can write about this by doing that
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you can really uh develop a more indepth
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kind of uh engagement throughout this
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entire time so uh here's a new letter
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okay imagine that you got that brag
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sheet and uh we were able to rewrite the
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letter it is my pleasure to strongly
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recommend John Smith for the admission
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to your University as his English
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teacher for two years I've had the
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privilege of watching John grow into an
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exceptional student and leader both in
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and outside of the classroom what makes
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John stand out is his ability to think
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critically and creatively during our
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class independent research project John
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chose to explore impact of Storytelling
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on social justice movements not only did
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he write compelling analyses but he also
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took the initiative to interview local
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activists weaving in in weaving their
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insights into his paper in a way that
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demonstrated maturity Beyond his years
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his work was later selected for
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publication in our school's liter
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literary journal a rare honor reserved
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for the top 2% of students Beyond
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academics John is a natural leader as
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the editor of our school newspaper he
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revitalized the publication by
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introducing a digital Edition increasing
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leaders leadership by 40% his ability to
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collaborate with pier and Mentor uh
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Young Writers uh speaks to his strong
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communication skills and dedication to
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ex Excellence John is a kind student who
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not only excels individually but also
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elevates those around him his
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intellectual curiosity resilience and
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Leadership will become an asset to your
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University I give them my highest
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recommendation without hesitation please
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feel free to contact me if you require
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any further information okay all right
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thoughts reactions what do you folks
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think about this particular letter here
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what are some noticings
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do folks like this more is it better
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than the first
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one numbers and metrics yes wow lots of
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great examples
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okay okay very specific yep definitely
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the case
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there all right uh using yep yep that's
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definitely all the great things there so
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uh definitely this is definitely a
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stronger case here and the things that
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we kind of observed was it shows
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enthusiasm right uh it my pleasure to
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strong uh strongly recommend it shows
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that this person is like much more
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engaged provides specific examples of
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the research project activism leash your
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role in the newspaper highlights
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personal qualities as well it's not just
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about the accomplishments that they uh
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were able to produce they also
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demonstrated like the characteristics of
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that person and connects to show the
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impact there is much more to it than
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just grades right uh the whole point of
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college admissions isn't just about
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academics remember the whole point of
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understanding the fit to a university is
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not that you are the best student ever
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but it's the fact that you will
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contribute towards the culture of the
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University so again when you're thinking
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about the person that can write your
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letter a wreck it's about thinking about
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that person who can speak to that
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character that can speak to how you
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could be a cultural fit for that
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University uh uh and felt it was sincere
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and yeah that was definitely the case
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there great great comments everyone and
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so what makes the letter powerful okay
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uh so one is that there should be a lot
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of more specific examples not just like
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hey this person is a great student but
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he led a project that improved our
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schools recycling program by 50% okay
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and of course actually Define what the
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50% means but again you're not writing
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the letter recommendation right you're
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uh just trying to be able to understand
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who can speak to these specifics okay
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if you uh don't think your adults or the
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people in your uh in your school can
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speak to the specifics then you got to
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give it to them you got to spoon feed
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them on the brag sheet what exactly can
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they highlight second thing a personal
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touch admission officers want to see
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real insights into your personality so
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it's not just a matter of like you're a
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robot you can get all A's you're doing a
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whole bunch of activities but being able
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to see like who are you more than just a
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number right what is the kind of impact
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that the insights that someone can say
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about you and lastly alignment with your
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application your letter should reinforce
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restraints and not just repeat your
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resume so remember going back to the
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very first slides about do they actually
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read your letter Rex yes they always
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read it and the thing is it's a
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comprehensive review meaning that if
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they read your letter wreck they're read
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They're reading the whole entire
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application so for those who don't know
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if you are requested to send a letter of
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recommendation again uh you're going to
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be they're going to be reviewing
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everything with it again so you don't
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want to restate anything that's new you
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want to say new information so that
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being said you want to make sure that um
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your uh letter recommendation isn't just
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like uh repeating everything right uh
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that you've already listed but to be
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able to share a new light about you
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because again they're asking for a
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letter wreck because you didn't share
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enough information about a particular
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thing so uh to guide your uh letter
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recommender right uh you obviously can't
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reach out you can't write your own
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letter some might say like oh just write
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a letter wreck and then I'll sign off on
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it I that's technically unethical there
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I don't think that's really the right
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thing to do but some people might say
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that like hey I'll just sign off
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whatever letter wreck that you want me
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to do uh some adults might say that they
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might do that um and so that's up to you
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if you want to follow that along but uh
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generally speaking you're not going to
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be the one to write it uh second um you
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want to uh make sure that you frame it
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to them about what exactly are the
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college is looking for in terms of
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characteristics but also what's the Gap
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that you're trying to close for them so
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if you already know that colleges are
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looking for leadership intellectual
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curiosity resilience teamwork and all
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these other things what do you want them
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to be able to uh talk about specifically
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so for example if you're applying for
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engineering program a math teacher
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should talk about your problem solving
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skills not just your test scores it's
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not about like someone boasting about
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how you got A's in their class because
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they already see that from your
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transcript they want to see about how
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did you get to those A's okay what are
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the characteristics of qualities that
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helped you get that high score so
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remember that don't emphasize on just
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the um the particular outcome that
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you've already displayed in your
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activities or in your uh grades but
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display the kind of character and
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processes that you've conducted yourself
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or that you demonstrated uh that is a
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good fit towards the
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university so uh quick common sticks
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here right in terms of what we typically
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see as an issue for a lot of these
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letter recommendations is one the
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biggest one is the lack of guidance to
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recommender so many students don't give
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enough information to the adults in the
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room and I know firsthand like when I
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get asked to be a letter recommender uh
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it's like one of those things of like a
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I only know so much about you we've only
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talked about like six times maybe or
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like we only had like so many
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Communications with each other and you
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want me to write this really big letter
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of recommendation like like I don't
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think I even feel that confident to
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write about you right and it's one of
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those things where if you were to give
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me more things to write about then that
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would be super much easier and uh I've
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also been asked to like be a um uh
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what's it called like one of those a
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referral like sometimes people would ask
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me to like be a referral for them when
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they apply to a job and they want me to
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speak on their character well the thing
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is I don't know what job they're
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applying to I don't know what particular
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like things they're trying to talk about
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for themselves or what they want me to
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highlight and I have no clue like what
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like how should I be responding what is
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what is it that like if I I want to
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support you but I don't know what what
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say so again give give the recommenders
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something to work off of second is
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choosing the wrong person okay when it
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comes to choosing the wrong person
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usually the typical mistakes is that
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you're choosing someone who can't really
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articulate well about you either because
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they don't have a strong foundation for
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writing and or also they just don't feel
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that connected to you and that can
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sometimes be an issue you want to make
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sure that someone is taking this
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seriously and so maybe a good another
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good litmus test right is do they
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understand how important it is for you
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to get into college right so that is
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something that you should have
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conversations with them on a regular
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basis to make sure that they are truly
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on the same page as you and that goes in
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the last part about not fostering
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relationship with adults too many high
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school students go through high school
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without even really trying to
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communicate or like get to know the
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other teachers uh or adults on the
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campus and that can backfire on you
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especially once you get to junior year
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or senior year and next you know you
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realize that you need a letter of
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recommendation and you don't even have
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anyone to rely on so get to know the
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adults in the in the building get to
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know the adults that can potentially
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support you in long-term future because
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you want everyone on your side and so
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the kinds of people that you might want
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to think about who are the teachers who
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are the counselors who are the
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principles or assistant principles that
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you could talk to on your campus and
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don't just think about on campus think
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off campus too if you're working aart
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time job if you're working for an
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internship if you're working for a
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nonprofit there's a lot of other people
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that can speak to you
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uh I get this question sometimes like
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can parents or uncles and aunts like be
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the ones who write it I don't really
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recommend it but I mean you could but
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again like you want them you want to see
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if there's someone that can speak to you
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speak about you on in unbiased like kind
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of perspective right so it'd be kind of
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awkward to all of a sudden get a letter
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of recommendation from your mom or dad
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you know it's kind of like one of those
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things like a course they're going to
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speak about all these highly good things
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have someone that you actually worked
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with professionally or
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academically all right so uh next we're
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going to go into the resources and next
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steps I hope that was helpful for
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everyone and after I do the resources
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next steps then we can go into Q&A so
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first off uh if you want the notes in
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the replay right and folks feel like
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this was helpful uh text notes and
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replay to 949 775
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0865 and uh this notes and replays will
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be available in 48 hours so uh please be
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patient as we upload it onto our website
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so that way people can be able to access
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it second thing is we do have a freebie
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of a brag sheet resource so the brag
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sheet is what can help you not only just
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uh give this to the letter recommenders
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but this is also good for your um
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activities list as well so if you're a
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freshman or sophomore or and you're
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prepping your application or even a
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junior when you're about to start really
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start writing your application now uh
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take advantage of this brag sheeet to
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start documenting everything that you've
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done because that way by the time you
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start writing an application it's going
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to be so easy for you to be able to just
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plug and play everything that you've
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done so use the spreadsheet use it as a
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way to be able to share it with your
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letter recommenders and also use it for
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your own completion of your
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application second thing Juniors 2026 uh
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uh Juniors right now
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we are starting our College app
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intensive very soon in April which is
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next month so if you haven't already uh
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first off if you're in our family
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programs or coaching programs be sure to
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uh message Us in Discord if you haven't
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reserved a spot and we will be able to
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get you like um RSVP if you are not a
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part of our coaching family then check
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out collegea intensive.com or text
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intensive for more information about
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this this is where students can come in
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learn about how to write a strong
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personal statement or personal Insight
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questions at the very beginning so that
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way they're not lost throughout the
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summer and then by the end of the uh
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summer we're going to have accelerator
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which is where you can join us in person
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or virtually where you'll have your
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completed finy drafts by then so
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definitely uh come through and be able
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to take advantage of this resource
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because we because you shouldn't be
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working on your applications and in 12th
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grade when you're starting school you
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want to get this done during the summer
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time ALS Al if you are new to uh our
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of that all right okay now let's go into
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the Q&A I see a lot that has built up
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questions um most colleges want two core
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academic letters my child's best
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leadership is in band and if they ask
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for two academic letters is it okay to
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send two core letters Plus the band
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recommend uh
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recommendation
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uh I would say
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it's if they're saying academic letters
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then that means that they want to
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understand will the student be able to
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handle the amount of college rigor at a
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university so that being said uh unless
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this person unless your child is
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actually studying for music in some way
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then I might try to look at the other CL
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classes that actually relate more to the
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um this the particular field they're
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interested in studying so if they're
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more of like a stem field then I would
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go more into the stem area of course you
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know no letter wreck is better than a
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letter than having a letter wreck is
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better than no letter wreck and also if
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this person is like really the best
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person to be able to like to request
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from then it doesn't hurt to still have
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it so it's a little bit of a Nuance
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answerer ideally I would say like try to
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go into like whatever the fields that
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they are studying in if they are
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requesting for academic
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letters okay don't letters of recck have
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to come from core subject teachers I.E
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Not Elected teachers not or not robotics
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coach who isn't a teacher uh no it
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doesn't
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actually uh quite matter who it is again
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it's about what are they asking for what
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are they like trying to learn more about
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is the subject or the substance so it
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doesn't necessarily need to always come
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from one particular core subject or
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teacher even with the last question
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right I'm only saying that it's about
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the content that they're able to produce
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if they can speak to the academic rigor
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or like what they've learned and how did
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they how well they did in those courses
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then those are the things that we would
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want them to um uh who to rely on next
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question if we want to major in computer
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science or engineering and need a letter
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recommendation in a related class
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there's a limited choices of teachers
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since really just since really need to
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be junior year teacher so what is more
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important teacher that can write well or
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subject being physics or
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math if we want okay there's a limited
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number of teachers what matters more
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teachers that can write well or subject
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being physics or math I mean it's kind
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of like one of those things like you
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kind of ideally want both in a way where
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like you want them to be the ones that
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speak to the uh the subject that you are
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going to study in in the future and also
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that could write well uh so in ways
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that's where the trade-off is right at
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the end of the day it's whoever that
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could speak the best about you so I
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would prioritize the teacher who can
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write better rather than just the
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physics or math teacher because they
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think of this way is that if you think
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that your physics or math teacher can't
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write too well about you or can't go in
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depth then that rela wreck might just be
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useless right because it doesn't add any
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substance just because you get a letter
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wck that is from a physics teacher
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doesn't mean that it's better it's only
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good based off the content that they're
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able to speak about you so again like
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really focus on who can go in depth with
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you is the most important thing okay
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some other questions
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here should letters
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of uh recommendation be written
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differently for summer programs versus
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college applications would you highlight
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different information on bra sheet or is
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it essentially the same uh it depends on
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the prompt right usually for summer
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programs they're asking for something
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very specific so uh try to understand
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what the requirements are remember that
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one slide I was sharing there's certain
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attributes they're looking for so just
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make sure that there are those
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particular attributes are understood and
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heard and then make sure that the letter
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re speak to those particular attributes
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that that the summer program might be
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looking for typically the bra sheeet is
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majority majority probably the same
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anyways there probably isn't going to be
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a major difference in the bra sheet
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itself unless you are trying to be very
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specific in what is it that you want to
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communicate
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okay uh next question is a brag sheeet
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the same as a resume uh yes or no right
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a resume is like here are certain
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experiences and here is like what I did
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during those professional or volunteer
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experiences the bra sheet also might
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talk about what is it that you want me
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to talk about uh what why is it that I'm
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choosing you as a uh using you as a as a
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as a reader or sorry as a letter
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recommender or it might even talk about
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the specific characteristics that uh
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that I have so the characteristics is
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the other addition that is different
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from what is typical from a
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resume should Juniors begin requesting
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letters in Spring then follow up with
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the Brack sheeet in senior year fall yes
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they should uh you want to get a good
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temperature check early on you don't
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want to be ending up like uh starting
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the new school year and Senior year and
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then you ask for the letter wreck and
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the next you know you're like oh no like
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I got to find and rush to has somebody
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and the goal isn't to ask them to write
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a letter right right right away but it's
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to get a temperature check about hey um
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I'm probably going to be lighting
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writing needing a letter recommendation
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in like half a year just kind of curious
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like do you think you'd feel comfortable
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to write about
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that all
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right and um in terms of uh uh we have a
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family here asking to register their
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child as we are part of the program uh
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please uh message us on Discord uh again
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this is a webinar so I can't really like
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be able to follow up on that so if you
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are part of our program uh message us in
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our your Discord Channel if you need to
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register for the college app intensive
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okay all right any other final questions
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from this
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group going
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once going
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twice all right so thank you everyone
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for uh participating in today's webinar
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I hope you all found it useful and
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looking forward to seeing youall next
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week all right take care and have a
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great night bye